Jealousy will destroy you! I could say that you will always lose when it comes to skating but that's not fair and it isn't even about that. I've heard people say that they don't get to spend enough time with their rollerblader or why is he skating on his day off when we could be together? Let's think about this for a minute... why would someone go out and do something that makes him feel alive, is part of who he is, and be with his friends doing something that he loves when he could sit at home on his day off and watch tv with you? Hmmm... I don't know but that seems pretty obvious to me. I don't hear him bitching about you going and getting your nails done. Just breath... know that your rollerblader is with you for a reason. They want to be with you but you may never hear that, you probably won't hear that from most men... It's kind of a given. Also, know you are the most important person to them but rollerblading is the most important thing to them. Once you have acknowledged and accepted that you two will have a happy future.